selfishness
US / ˈsɛlfɪʃnɪs/
・UK /'selfɪʃnəs/
A2 初級
n. (u.)不可數名詞 自私
Cam's selfishness caused Carol to believe he was mean
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- I get so much happiness out of doing things for people who would be categorized as the way you just broke it down because I have a weird gear inside of me that has zero expectation for the return on someone's selfishness.
我從為那些人做事中獲得了巨大的快樂，那些人就像你剛才說的那樣被歸類，因為我內心有個奇怪的機制，對別人自私的付出毫無期待。
- on someone's selfishness.
為什麼我們要花很長時間才能瞭解自己有多糟糕？ (Why It Can Take Us So Long to Understand How Unwell We Are)
- Notice any new human in a terrible circumstance, let's say in a home with a violent or alcoholic parent or an abusive or depressed one, and it won't, as one might imagine it could, be able to focus clearly on what's gone wrong or mourn its condition. It will simply, as we've ascertained it must, keep going. In order to do this, it will call upon a range of innate survival techniques. It may start to think surprisingly well of its parents, declaring them justified in their beatings, selfishness or humiliations. It might assiduously blame itself rather than sparing any pity for its own deprivations. Let's remember that a sense of self-compassion can be a very dangerous thing indeed when one is five years old and no one would listen even if one yelled. Or else it will ward off despair through activity, it will overachieve at school or break windows or become obsessed with drugs or sport or politics – anything not to have to listen to the buzz inside. The benighted child can't look back, it can't glance down, it must simply stare ahead at the main goal – survival.
注意到任何一個處於可怕環境中的新人類，比方說，在一個父母暴力、酗酒、虐待或抑鬱的家庭中，它不會像人們想象的那樣，能夠清楚地關注出了什麼問題或哀悼自己的狀況。它只會像我們已經確定的那樣，繼續生活下去。為了做到這一點，它將調用一系列與生俱來的生存技巧。它可能會開始對父母有驚人的好感，認為他們的毆打、自私或羞辱是理所應當的。它可能會不遺餘力地責怪自己，而不是對自己的匱乏表示同情。讓我們記住，當一個人只有五歲，即使大喊大叫也沒人聽的時候，自我同情的意識確實是一件非常危險的事情。否則，他就會通過活動來抵禦絕望，他就
- It may start to think surprisingly well of its parents, declaring them justified in their beatings, selfishness, or humiliations.
你總是不願面對的紅色警訊！🚩 (The Red Flags You Keep Ignoring)
- That certain people constantly reveal to us some of their deep-seated inclinations towards unkindness, treachery, vanity, and selfishness.
這意味著什麼？
- That certain people constantly reveal to us some of their deep-seated inclinations towards unkindness, treachery, vanity and selfishness.
某些人不斷向我們揭示他們內心深處的一些傾向，如不友善、背叛、虛榮和自私。
所有的惡意都是如何被傳承下來的？！ (How All Meanness Is Inherited)
- The ugliness that washes up on our doorsteps today will be a legacy of ill-treatment, violence, selfishness, hard-heartedness, cynicism, and
我們在日常生活中，在商店裡、董事會會議室、臥室和線上論壇裡看到的惡劣，總是基於一種心理經濟學的法則，以令人震驚的勤勉，一代傳一代。
- The ugliness that washes up on our doorsteps today will be a legacy of ill treatment, violence, selfishness, hard heartedness, cynicism and indifference that came somewhere off stage.
今天我們門口出現的醜陋，將是來自幕後某處的虐待、暴力、自私、冷酷無情、憤世嫉俗和冷漠的遺產。
為什麼社會對「好人」如此不友善？(Why Hate The Good Guys [Antisocial Punishment])
![為什麼社會對「好人」如此不友善？(Why Hate The Good Guys [Antisocial Punishment])](https://img.youtube.com/vi/BeK134Ftkq8/hqdefault.jpg)
- Results showed that antisocial punishment is stronger in cultures where selfishness is encouraged, in places with high social inequality, and where governments exhibit higher levels of corruption.
結果表明，在鼓勵自私的文化、社會不平等嚴重的地方以及政府腐敗程度較高的地方，反社會懲罰的力度更大。
- Results showed that antisocial punishment is stronger in cultures where selfishness is encouraged, in places with high social inequality,
現在，即使懲罰利他主義者可能是我們的本能，但這種現象的集體影響會造成平庸文化，抑制創新，最終損害集體福祉。
