hopeless
US /ˈhoʊpləs/
・UK /ˈhəʊpləs/
A2 初級英檢高級
adj.形容詞無望的 ； 絕望的
He has a hopeless memory, he can't remember anything!
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現代離婚率那麼高，約會有什麼意義？ (What Is The Point In Dating?)
- Do you hear jaw-dropping tragic love stories that dispel the thought of relationships from your mind, or are you a hopeless romantic who imagines falling for the perfect person, yet you wonder what lies beyond the butterfly feelings?
你是否聽到過令人瞠目結舌的愛情悲劇，從而打消了對戀愛的念頭？
- Do you hear jaw-dropping tragic love stories that dispel the thought of relationships from your mind, or are you a hopeless romantic who imagines falling for the perfect person, yet you wonder what lies beyond the butterfly feelings?
你是否聽到過令人瞠目結舌的愛情悲劇，從而打消了對戀愛的念頭？
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- Because they sit down in hopeless despair and expect it to come to them, but
傳承，「生命、真理與力量，如同電流一般，」
- Because they sit down in hopeless despair and expect it to come to them, but
傳承，「生命、真理與力量，如同電流一般，」
如何擺脫成癮的束縛？ (How to Weaken the Hold of Addiction)
- Over a time, the addictive behaviour offers a kind of soothing, an escape from an intolerable discomfort. Vomiting after a meal brings a sense of lightness. Porn leads one into a series of physical highs. A state of drunkenness stills critical voices. The way to start to break the pattern of addiction is simply to realise, before we have rushed to the addictive solution, that we are in trouble. That we have, for whatever reason, grown very sad and hopeless about ourselves and therefore that we are in a danger zone and need help now rather than in a few hours. We have to become better historians and observers of our moods and aim to put a gap, in time and in mental activity, between the moment when we are hurt and the moment when we reach for our self-destructive solution. If we manage to slow down the process, then we should be able to wake ourselves up from our narcotic impulses and say, in a profoundly helpful way, I am upset. Just the realisation that we are so is half the battle at least. I am feeling deeply upset and therefore I am in danger. And from here, we can ask another extremely pertinent set of questions. What am I upset about? How am I upset? We may need to close our eyes and just sit still for a moment to let the answer percolate from the unconscious. Alternatively, we might try and complete the following sentence. I am currently feeling upset because… It is one of the quirks of the strange brains we all have that it can take so long to know what we are feeling and to understand what might have caused it. When we do start to notice our upset, then we can begin the business of self-soothing in more fruitful ways. One side can run an arm around the other and say in effect, poor you, how awful to be feeling awful again. Almost certainly, in early life, no one had much sympathy or the remotest bit of interest in our feelings of loss, self-hatred and abandonment. That is why we find it so hard to get interested in them ourselves. But we can patch up the damage. We can ask, how am I feeling about myself and what has happened to give me that feeling? We can replace addiction with self-compassion and understanding. No one falls prey to addictions by coincidence.
隨著時間的推移，上癮行為提供了一種撫慰，一種對難以忍受的不適的逃避。飯後嘔吐會帶來一種輕鬆感。色情會讓人進入一系列的生理高潮。酩酊大醉的狀態能平息責備的聲音。打破上癮模式的方法很簡單，那就是在我們急於找到上癮的解決辦法之前，意識到我們遇到了麻煩。不管出於什麼原因，我們已經對自己感到非常悲傷和絕望，是以我們正處於危險之中，現在就需要幫助，而不是幾個小時之後。我們必須成為更好的情緒歷史學家和觀察者，在時間和心理活動上，在我們受到傷害的那一刻和我們採取自我毀滅的解決方案的那一刻之間留出空白。如果我們能夠放慢這個
- That we have, for whatever reason, grown very sad and hopeless about ourselves—and therefore that we are in a danger zone and need help now rather than in a few hours.
決策 | 決策的未來 | 諾貝爾獎對話雪梨 (Decision making | The Future of Decision Making | Nobel Prize Dialogue Sydney)
- But it's not hopeless.
但並非毫無希望。
- But it's not hopeless.
實際上，我們必須開始從大氣中清除它。
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- and even Jane, who believed still less of it, became almost hopeless, more especially as the time was now come when, if they had gone to Scotland, which she had never before entirely despaired of, they must in all probability have gained some news of them.
他們三個人同心協力，所有與他們旅程有關的事務都
- and even Jane, who believed still less of it, became almost hopeless, more especially as the time was now come when, if they had gone to Scotland, which she had never before entirely despaired of, they must in all probability have gained some news of them.
他們要盡快出發。「但 Pemberley 怎麼辦？」
破解焦慮：找出大腦中主宰不安的隱形「設定」（The Hidden 'Setting' That Controls Your Anxiety）
- Because we look at some people and we envy them because they're like, "Oh my God, this person responds to this situation with so much resilience, whereas I feel hopeless in the same situation." There's something special about them, and—but hold on a second.
我們會訓練他們。
- whereas I feel hopeless in the same situation. There is something special about them, and—"
而我在相同情況下卻感到絕望。他們身上有什麼特別之處，而且——」
房價為最大主因！為什麼在澳洲生活根本是「不可能的任務」？！ (Why Living In Australia Is Impossible)
- And hardworking, honest Australians are left feeling hopeless.
而勤勞、誠實的澳大利亞人則感到絕望。
- and hardworking, honest Australians are left feeling hopeless.
關於移民是房價上漲的主要推手的論點是相當薄弱的。
人類的終極目標！8 分鐘教你「如何長壽」！ (How to Live Longer (in under 8 minutes))
- Now I know I have felt hopeless and helpless my entire life in this regard, just until the past few years, where I actually have the systems.
現在我知道，在這方面，我一生都感到絕望和無助，直到最近幾年，我才真正擁有了這些系統。
- Now, I know I have felt hopeless and helpless my entire life in this regard just until the past few years where I actually have the systems.
我們知道，一旦我們屈服，就會削弱整個系統，無論你在哪裡，無論你的情況如何，我們都能做到這一點。
