spouse
US /spaʊs, spaʊz/
・UK /spaʊs/
B2 中高級英檢高級
n.名詞配偶
I've been married to my spouse for five years
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如何聰明吵架！告別「我們都在吵架」的惡夢，學習處理關係中的怒氣！ (Fighting Fair: How to Fight Fair & Deal With Anger in Relationships if "All We Do Is Fight")
- If you're not fighting fair with your spouse or if there's a
如果你和配偶之間沒有公平地爭吵，或者你們之間
- If you're fighting with your spouse, or if there's a constant tension between the two of you in your relationship or marriage, or if innocent conversations just suddenly erupt into volcanic-like explosions, well then you're in the right place.
如果你和配偶之間沒有公平地爭吵，或者你們之間
現代離婚率那麼高，約會有什麼意義？ (What Is The Point In Dating?)
- A study from Yale University found that if one spouse had quit smoking, taken up running, or begun to consume a healthier diet, their partner became more likely to do it as well.
耶魯大學的一項研究發現，如果夫妻一方戒菸、跑步或開始攝入更健康的飲食，那麼他們的伴侶也更有可能戒菸、跑步或開始攝入更健康的飲食。
- A study from Yale University found that if one spouse had quit smoking, taken up running, or begun to consume a healthier diet, their partner became more likely to do it as well.
約會對生理和心理健康有著令人驚喜的益處，值得一試。
跟著加拿大人 Bob 學英文系列：「放假」的英文該怎麼說！ (How to Describe a Day Off in English!)
- It can be with your spouse, your kids, maybe your brothers and sisters, maybe your parents.
可以是與配偶，也可以是與孩子，也許是你的兄弟姐妹，也許是你的父母。
- It can be with your spouse, your kids, maybe your brothers and sisters, maybe your parents.
可以是與配偶，也可以是與孩子，也許是你的兄弟姐妹，也許是你的父母。
為什麼我們要花很長時間才能瞭解自己有多糟糕？ (Why It Can Take Us So Long to Understand How Unwell We Are)
- This priority can last for a very long time indeed. After all, a sense of external security isn't remotely assured for most of us until we've settled in a career, built up some capital, bought a home, found a spouse, maybe had some children, by which time we might be in our forties or fifties. Yet our excellence at survival doesn't take away from the basic fact of our situation. We have been born into a mess. We have the ingredients of madness inside us. We have been unmoored by cruelty. We are, quietly, in the recesses of our soul, close to insanity at points, the ineluctable result of too much suffering encountered too soon. But as the external world gets ever safer for us, the internal world has a chance to feel as troubled as it has always been. We may feel far stranger inside at forty than at twenty, even though the causes of our disturbances lie in events far closer to the latter date than the former. Eventually, the pent-up fear and sadness are liable to find a way through. We'll start to do something odd, write long letters to strangers, or crash the car, or sob in public, or develop a certainty that the government is following us. The legacy of the unkindness of which we have been the recipients begins to emerge. With any luck, we may soon enough wind up in a clinic or the consulting room of an experienced therapist and here have a chance to find out more about the sadness and loss that have been inside us since the start. We may finally feel safe enough to let out a very long scream and meet with the love and understanding that were our due from the start.
這種優先權可能會持續很長一段時間。畢竟，對於我們中的大多數人來說，在事業穩定下來、積累了一定的資本、買了房子、找到了配偶、也許有了孩子之前，外部安全感是無法保證的，到那時我們可能已經四五十歲了。然而，我們出色的生存能力並不能掩蓋我們處境的基本事實。我們生來就是一團糟。我們的內心充滿了瘋狂的成分。我們因殘酷而失去自我。我們的靈魂深處悄悄地接近瘋狂，這是過早遭遇太多痛苦的必然結果。然而，當外部世界對我們越來越安全時，我們的內心世界卻有機會像以往一樣感到不安。四十歲時，我們的內心可能會比二十歲時陌生得多，儘管造
- After all, a sense of external security isn't remotely assured for most of us until we have settled in a career, built up some capital, bought a home, found a spouse, maybe had some children—by which time we might be in our forties or fifties.
爭辯無益：練習拒絕衝突的心理智慧（Why We Should Refuse to Get Into Arguments）
- We should work out the clever game and refuse to play any further rounds of it—whether the invitee is our spouse, stranger, our child, or a colleague.
他們為何要表現得幾乎是故意地緩慢、無禮或乖戾？
- We should work out the clever game and refuse to play any further rounds of it, whether the invitee is our spouse, a stranger, our child, or a colleague.
我們應該識破這個聰明的遊戲，拒絕再玩任何一輪——無論對方是我們的配偶、陌生人、孩子，還是同事。
