kinder
US /'kɪndər/
・UK /'kɪndə(r)/
A2 初級
adj.形容詞較善良的
The weather in the countryside was kinder compared to the city
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如何擺脫成癮的束縛？ (How to Weaken the Hold of Addiction)
- The behaviours always have roots in an intense, normally childhood-derived sense of being a terrible, unworthy person. In summary, the route to stopping addictive behaviour is to ask oneself how one is feeling, realise one is probably feeling very bad, grow curious about and sympathetic to the causes and then ask, what would be a better, kinder way of handling this sense of awfulness? Knowing that there is room and love for the feeling that provokes addiction is the key to weakening the hold of – and one day overcoming – what we are addicted to.
這些行為總是源於一種強烈的、通常源自童年的感覺，即自己是一個糟糕的、不值得的人。總之，戒除成癮行為的途徑就是問問自己的感覺如何，意識到自己可能感覺非常糟糕，對其原因產生好奇和同情，然後問，怎樣才能更好、更仁慈地處理這種糟糕的感覺？知道有空間和愛可以容納引起上癮的感覺，是削弱--並有朝一日克服--我們所上癮的東西的關鍵所在。
- and then ask: What would be a better, kinder way of handling this sense of awfulness?
關於「理所當然」的感受！ (On Feeling Obliged)
- On our gravestone, it might as well say: "Got here a lot earlier out of an inability to say no." It gets worse the kinder a person happens to be to us and the more emotional the relationship.
在我們的墓碑上，可能會寫著：「因為無法說不，所以來得早了很多。」當一個人對我們越好，關係越是情感化時，情況就越糟。
- On our gravestone, it might as well say, "Got here a lot earlier out of an inability to say no." It gets worse the kinder a person happens to be to us and the more emotional the relationship.
如果我們對伴侶產生疑慮，當他們談論要見家長、同居或結婚時，我們會勇敢地微笑。
宣傳遊戲：芝麻信用 - 遊戲化的真正危險 - Extra Credits (Propaganda Games: Sesame Credit - The True Danger of Gamification - Extra Credits)
- It's Big Brother's kinder, gentler hand.
這些東西都是為了要『維持大眾秩序』而產生的骯髒手段
- Its big brother's kinder, gentler hand.
老大哥動作變得慈祥而溫柔
小孩們大方告白！向心儀對象吐露真心話！ (Kids Confess Their Feelings About Their Crush)
- I met him in Kinder.
我有一個暗戀對象
- - I met him in Kinder.
我在幼稚園裡認識他的
分手後復合前 — 必看這支影片！ (Before You Get Back With Your Ex — Watch THIS)
- Frank answers can spare a couple decades of squabbling. Next, what trouble do I bring into the relationship? How am I difficult to live around? There should be no bristling here. Bearable people have a good handle on their unbearable dimensions. We don't need people to be perfect, we just need them to have a decent sense of how imperfect they are and how much their imperfections are going to cause the other pain. Then, what trouble do you bring into the relationship? How are you difficult to live around? We need agreement on the mutual complications that are being brought to the table. Both people should write their answers down, then show the other their analyses. Can both sides agree on what's most horrible in each person? The more alignment there can be, the less future criticism has to feel like nagging, and the more it can fit into a kinder project of helping someone to change as they would, at their saner moments, wish to change. Then, which bits of my anxiety and unhappiness did I discover were not, after all, your fault? What continued to be difficult even without you around? It's highly tempting when in a relationship to assume that all the misery we face is the fault of the lover. We attribute to the main person in our lives a commanding role in determining our state of mind. But when they're gone, we may be forced to realise a more complex truth – that our low moods and neuroses have their origins, in large part, in us rather than in them. It can, oddly, no longer all be their fault. How did life remain hard, even without them? What might they not be to blame for? Then, what I now appreciate more properly about you is… We're meant never to lose sight of what was great about them, but in reality, we sometimes need the perspective of time to get clearer about their virtues. In the long months since we were together, what sides of them did we realise we most deeply valued? Then, what did I learn from meeting other people? A truly tricky subject, but as we're realising, it's a capacity for eating humble pie that stands a restarted relationship in such good stead.
坦率的回答可以避免幾十年的爭吵。接下來，我給這段關係帶來了什麼麻煩？我是如何難以相處的？這裡不應該有毛刺。可以忍受的人都能很好地控制自己無法忍受的方面。我們不需要人們完美無缺，我們只需要他們對自己有多不完美以及自己的不完美會給對方帶來多大的痛苦有一個正確的認識。那麼，你給這段關係帶來了什麼麻煩？你是如何難以相處的？我們需要就彼此帶來的麻煩達成一致。兩個人都應該寫下自己的答案，然後給對方看自己的分析。雙方能否就每個人身上最可怕的地方達成一致？雙方的意見越一致，今後的責備就越不會讓人覺得是嘮叨，也就越能融入到
- And the more it can fit into a kinder project of helping someone to change as they would, at their saner moments, wish to change.
自慰多久算過量？ (How Much Masturbation Is Too Much?)
- Seeing masturbation as a neutral, human behavior helps you build a kinder relationship with your body.
你的大腦會記住那份舒緩感，並自然而然地再次尋求。
- Seeing masturbation as a neutral human behavior helps you build a kinder relationship with your body.
將自慰視為一種中性的性行為，有助於你與身體建立更友善的關係。
艾蒙的彩虹與泡泡！ | 兩集《芝麻街》完整節目 (Elmo's Rainbow and Bubbles! | TWO Sesame Street Full Episodes)
- You're getting smarter, stronger, kinder.
你變得更聰明、更強壯、更善良。
- You're getting smarter, stronger, kinder.
你變得更聰明、更強壯、更善良。
你內心的小孩今天需要什麼？ (What Does the Child in You Need Today?)
- We'll accede to a fairer, calmer, kinder adulthood once we accept with grace how close we remain always to the delicate, sensitive, tear-prone little person we once were.
一旦我們從容地接受自己與曾經那個纖弱、敏感、易流淚的小女孩的距離有多近，我們就會接受一個更公平、更平靜、更善良的成人世界。
- We will exceed to a fairer, calmer, kinder adulthood once we accept with grace how close we remain, always, to the delicate, sensitive, tear-prone little person we once were.